* Revamp memory management of `InstanceHandle`
This commit fixes a known but in Wasmtime where an instance could still
be used after it was freed. Unfortunately the fix here is a bit of a
hammer, but it's the best that we can do for now. The changes made in
this commit are:
* A `Store` now stores all `InstanceHandle` objects it ever creates.
This keeps all instances alive unconditionally (along with all host
functions and such) until the `Store` is itself dropped. Note that a
`Store` is reference counted so basically everything has to be dropped
to drop anything, there's no longer any partial deallocation of instances.
* The `InstanceHandle` type's own reference counting has been removed.
This is largely redundant with what's already happening in `Store`, so
there's no need to manage two reference counts.
* Each `InstanceHandle` no longer tracks its dependencies in terms of
instance handles. This set was actually inaccurate due to dynamic
updates to tables and such, so we needed to revamp it anyway.
* Initialization of an `InstanceHandle` is now deferred until after
`InstanceHandle::new`. This allows storing the `InstanceHandle` before
side-effectful initialization, such as copying element segments or
running the start function, to ensure that regardless of the result of
instantiation the underlying `InstanceHandle` is still available to
persist in storage.
Overall this should fix a known possible way to safely segfault Wasmtime
today (yay!) and it should also fix some flaikness I've seen on CI.
Turns out one of the spec tests
(bulk-memory-operations/partial-init-table-segment.wast) exercises this
functionality and we were hitting sporating use-after-free, but only on
Windows.
* Shuffle some APIs around
* Comment weak cycle
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