* Reimplement how instance exports are stored/loaded
This commit internally refactors how instance exports are handled and
fixes two issues. One issue is that when we instantiate an instance we
no longer forcibly load all items from the instance immediately,
deferring insertion of each item into the store data tables to happen
later as necessary. The next issue is that repeated calls to
`Caller::get_export` would continuously insert items into the store data
tables. While working as intended this was undesirable because it would
continuously push onto a vector that only got deallocated once the
entire store was deallocate. Now it's routed to `Instance::get_export`
which doesn't have this behavior.
Closes#2916Closes#2983
* Just define our own `Either`
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