This commit updates the `memfd` support in Wasmtime to have a runtime
toggle as to whether it's used or not. The compile-time feature gating
`memfd` support is now also re-enabled by default, but the new runtime
switch is still disabled-by-default.
Additionally this commit updates our fuzz oracle to turn on/off the
memfd flag to re-enable fuzzing with memfd on oss-fuzz.
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