This commit refactors the internals of `wasmtime_runtime::SharedMemory`
a bit to expose the necessary functions to invoke from the
`wasmtime::SharedMemory` layer. Notably some items are moved out of the
`RwLock` from prior, such as the type and the `VMMemoryDefinition`.
Additionally the organization around the `atomic_*` methods has been
redone to ensure that the `wasmtime`-layer abstraction has a single
method to call into which everything else uses as well.
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