Update WASI to cap-std 0.25 and windows-sys. (#4302)

This updates to rustix 0.35.6, and updates wasi-common to use cap-std 0.25 and
windows-sys (instead of winapi).

Changes include:

 - Better error code mappings on Windows.
 - Fixes undefined references to `utimensat` on Darwin.
 - Fixes undefined references to `preadv64` and `pwritev64` on Android.
 - Updates to io-lifetimes 0.7, which matches the io_safety API in Rust.
 - y2038 bug fixes for 32-bit platforms

crates/wasi-common/cap-std-sync/src/net.rs

@@ -213,12 +213,12 @@ macro_rules! wasi_stream_write_impl {
                 bufs: &mut [io::IoSliceMut<'a>],
             ) -> Result<u64, Error> {
                 use std::io::Read;
-                let n = Read::read_vectored(&mut *self.as_socketlike_view::<$std_ty>(), bufs)?;
+                let n = Read::read_vectored(&mut &*self.as_socketlike_view::<$std_ty>(), bufs)?;
                 Ok(n.try_into()?)
             }
             async fn write_vectored<'a>(&mut self, bufs: &[io::IoSlice<'a>]) -> Result<u64, Error> {
                 use std::io::Write;
-                let n = Write::write_vectored(&mut *self.as_socketlike_view::<$std_ty>(), bufs)?;
+                let n = Write::write_vectored(&mut &*self.as_socketlike_view::<$std_ty>(), bufs)?;
                 Ok(n.try_into()?)
             }
             async fn peek(&mut self, buf: &mut [u8]) -> Result<u64, Error> {