only wasi_cap_std_sync and wasi_tokio need to define WasiCtxBuilders (#2917)

* wasmtime-wasi: re-exporting this WasiCtxBuilder was shadowing the right one

wasi-common's WasiCtxBuilder is really only useful wasi_cap_std_sync and
wasi_tokio to implement their own Builder on top of.

This re-export of wasi-common's is 1. not useful and 2. shadow's the
re-export of the right one in sync::*.

* wasi-common: eliminate WasiCtxBuilder, make the builder methods on WasiCtx instead

* delete wasi-common::WasiCtxBuilder altogether

just put those methods directly on &mut WasiCtx.

As a bonus, the sync and tokio WasiCtxBuilder::build functions
are no longer fallible!

* bench fixes

* more test fixes

crates/bench-api/src/lib.rs

@@ -222,7 +222,7 @@ impl BenchState {
             cx = cx.env("WASM_BENCH_USE_SMALL_WORKLOAD", &val)?;
         }
 
-        Wasi::new(linker.store(), cx.build()?).add_to_linker(&mut linker)?;
+        Wasi::new(linker.store(), cx.build()).add_to_linker(&mut linker)?;
 
         #[cfg(feature = "wasi-nn")]
         {